Just for your reference to all you bosses and/or administrative heads out there: "You are amazing, I don't care what they say!" is not a compliment in my eyes. Though I am pretty "inside my head" most of the time... If "they" obviously are saying negative things about me, why have "you" waited until now to let me know, and who are "they" anyway? I would like to speak with "them," and find out exactly what "they" think I am doing wrong; and the fact that "YOU" are disregarding "them" completely like that, I feel is inappropriate. What gives "you" the right to descend from the ranks and go against "them" in the first place?